Just words

Are we a sexual people?

Every time I get access to many sites allowing user interaction, I found that sex is a major problem in our life. Every body asks about it. Wide spread use of Viagra among Egyptians gives a pseudo image that we solve our all problems but sex. Most of people sending their problems complaining of their women
She is not hot!
She is cold!
She never wants me!!!
She never reaches orgasm!!!!
Oh God, first time in my life see men cares about what make their women happy- Ignoring that they only care because their own need-.
Everyday passed in my life I realized that there is a huge misunderstanding between woman and man. Woman doesn’t want you to make her happy for 24 minutes a day but she wants to know that you really care about her 24 hour a day.
Just care...
We want just care....
Do you know how to bring your woman to a feeling better than orgasm?
That is so easy:

-Respect her.

-Never ridicule the way she thinks.

-Do not change TV channel while she is watching.

-Try to share her what she loves.
-If she gets her period: prepare a hot cup of mentha and bring her extra blanket. Wishing her good dreams and never asks her to prepare your dinner. At that time women feel cold, feel nervous and have severe pain described by many text books as sloughing. Many studies said that problems leading to divorce mostly occur during period.

-Whatever your circumstances are, believe or not, your wife is taking bigger responsibilities than you; she cares about home, the kid, the money and her work. She is feeling daily that she doing extraordinary efforts and she really do but you never support her. You never say to her:" I appreciate what are you doing and I feel sorrow for you", you only say:" where my clean shirts is?"
I have an anthem friend and her husband also is my friend, weeks ago I met him and I asked about her and what she did towards over charge of work, home, and their first kid.
"I feel sorry for her she are resisting responsibilities can not done by a human being.. that beyond nature" he said to me, he mean their kid, home, her Master degree, research and her students.
I feel for a while that my friend is lucky to have a husband like him..
He appreciate her!
Days later I call her and we share every thing as usual and I told her about my conversation with her husband. She never believed what he had said she felt happy I never heard her voice dancing since a long time.
That night she said to him:
-"Oh my darling Sesame told me about what you said to her do you really appreciate what I do and feel sorrow for me"
-"I never truly meant what I said it was only words I said to your friend."
He was only making his image brilliant in front of me. I do not want to hear that words. The only one deserve your complements is only your wife.
I know now why my friend never reaches orgasm since she got married.
It is only words...
And words that we need....
To take our heart away.....